Relationships
They are never easy...
The only way for them to work out in a short/medium-term is having a non-relationship relationship ( a non-relationship relationship consists in: you meet, you spend some time together doing whatever and then each one goes on with it's life... no strings attached, no commitment)
I've had some non-relationships relationships in the past, mostly with married people (married people are the best, they always bring you presents, take you to good restaurants, drive family cars (which can be used to satisfy your car fetiches) and are always afraid to say that thing that may cost them the extra-marital sex!
Real relationships are very hard to handle, you have to give a lot of yourself ... i don't think i'm ready for a full-time relationship, though i'd like to have one (eventually) but i think that right now a non-relationship relationship would be perfect for me ...
Anyone interested?
Let me tell you about my qualities:
The only way for them to work out in a short/medium-term is having a non-relationship relationship ( a non-relationship relationship consists in: you meet, you spend some time together doing whatever and then each one goes on with it's life... no strings attached, no commitment)
I've had some non-relationships relationships in the past, mostly with married people (married people are the best, they always bring you presents, take you to good restaurants, drive family cars (which can be used to satisfy your car fetiches) and are always afraid to say that thing that may cost them the extra-marital sex!
Real relationships are very hard to handle, you have to give a lot of yourself ... i don't think i'm ready for a full-time relationship, though i'd like to have one (eventually) but i think that right now a non-relationship relationship would be perfect for me ...
Anyone interested?
Let me tell you about my qualities:
- I can make your life a living hell
- I hate cleaning (so you have to do all the cleanings)
- I don't like being said: NO!
- I always wake up singing (which can cause you nausea in long term exposure)
- I like hompin' on the bed
- I like to listen to heavy-metal very loud
posted by KingOfSpades at 2:50 pm
2 Comments:
what do you have with your friends? non-relationship relationships or relationships? and i'm disregarding the physical bit as it doesn't really ammount to much in what you wrote (probably it does to what you had in mind :-P)
from what you're saying... you also don't want to have friends... but you already do... how do you manage? and why the hell even care about pursuing a relationship or a non-relationship relationship? (and what kind of a term is this?!) shouldn't it evolve naturally?
you just give from yourself what you want... either it is sufficient for the other party or not, either the relationship flourishes or it dies... it's partially up to you, if you *want* to, you make the effort...
This post wasn't about friendship relationships, it was about sexual relationships... there's the "let's fuck" relationships wich i'm not a fan, the "non-relationship" relationships which i'm beginning to reconsider (again) and there're those relationships ... love relationships, where you build up something ...
And what i had in mind when i posted ... how's about "nothing"? i didn't give any thought about it ... just wrote!
I'm an impulsive writer!
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